Situations are not so complicated as we think of it.. :D

Sometimes it feels like life was really unfare to me. Why at all wrong things happens at wrong times.. not just once many a times things go wrong on important days... when we want them to be perfect, they don't..

Every time it ends with a "kaash"... and then their is nothing i can do to improve it..

But genuinely all the time its in our hands.. they doesnt seem so but later on we realize if we had thought before taking a step or saying something we would have been in a different condition and facing different situations..

It always happens with me that i dont think before i say something and that something hurts my loved ones.. It takes some time for me to realize that and that time make a lot of difference..
People get mad at me and some times they even stop talking to me... and after all this i end up into tears and then while i cry i realize the mistake "my mistake" and keep thinking how to make up for it..

Sometimes the situations are of other kind people ask questions and we do not know how to answer them.. indeed we sit silently before them , but they misunderstand the silence and things go wrong again.. later on we try justifying ourselves and then we have lots of answers to the same question but the person is not ready to listen to any of it and in such situations i feel so helpless and finally end into tears..

Why do we always do not think a step before and then end thinking later on.. why do we always hurt others and feel sad and gloomy at the end..

I have realized this one thing that we need to think twice before we speak and keeping quite it not the option.. the answer should be well thought before and then it should be out of our mouth in a proper order and a proper tone... this is an option to avoid such situations before we actually make them complicated..

Just a thought of mind.. I know there will be many more options but this ones from my side.. :D

Engineering & Me !!!!

Never in my life had i thought about writing a blog...  And here am I doing the same..
These were the thoughts running behind my mind the night of Mega memoir 2012 which dint let me sleep..

Engineering Life !!! The two words which seemed to be only two words, always said by my sibblings and my seniors, the day I joined my engineering now makes much sense to me when I am standing at the end days of my engineering life. Now I exactly understand the meaning and worth of these two words.. ENGINEERING LIFE !!

To my surprise it took me whole of my four years of engineering just to understand what it meant.. So heres a blog dedicated to all my engineering friends 'cos without them there was no spice and no fun in these four years..

As everybody say engineering life teaches you a lot of things not just technical stuff but a lot more than that. Now I believe each word of the sentence is true to its meaning.

People learn from their idols or put it the other way People idolize the persons and try to become like them follow their foot steps or at least try to learn something from them. But learning becomes quite an easy task when these idols are moving around you, talking to you, eating with you... Yeah i am talking about all my engineering class mates who taught me a lot of stuff in life..

My philosophy was learn something good from every person 'cos everybody has something really good in them. So this is how my learning process starts.. i would like to mention the names of my idols and the quality which i liked in them and want to learn it from them.. :)

I love Priyanka's way of dealing with her friends when they are upset. Being cool, calm and patient giving a helping hand and her shoulder whenever required.

I love Rashmi's way of socializing..

I love Deepthi's attitude of " No matter if you are alone if you want to do something do it."

I love Manasa's quality of letting things out 'cos people should know what and where they were wrong and especially when someone hurts you.. :)

I love Deepashikha's & Sandeep's way of dealing with persons..

I love Mrudula's innocent behaviour when something has gone wrong because of her and her style of saying sorry abba.. :)

I like Bhavana's attitude of  " If i want it, I take it."

I like Mona's quality of overcoming up with the pain just to make sure her friends around are not much worried about her..

I like Anusha attitude of " Chill amma!! "

I like Ali's way of helping, teaching and guiding people without taking any credit for anything..

I like Moiz's & Seshu's bindaas attitude..

I like the amount of patience Navakiran has..

I like Mahesh's way of tutoring sports.. (Not to forget the cricket training session)

I like Yeshwanth's " No matter what the world says this is me and how I will be " attitude..

I like Chaitanya's " Do not get into any mess " style..

The list is gonna never end.. I just wish my Engineering life doesn't come to a full stop so that i can learn many more things from all of you guys....

Lastly, THANK YOU guys!!! for bearing me all four years....