Sometimes it feels like life was really unfare to me. Why at all wrong things happens at wrong times.. not just once many a times things go wrong on important days... when we want them to be perfect, they don't..
Every time it ends with a "kaash"... and then their is nothing i can do to improve it..
But genuinely all the time its in our hands.. they doesnt seem so but later on we realize if we had thought before taking a step or saying something we would have been in a different condition and facing different situations..
It always happens with me that i dont think before i say something and that something hurts my loved ones.. It takes some time for me to realize that and that time make a lot of difference..
People get mad at me and some times they even stop talking to me... and after all this i end up into tears and then while i cry i realize the mistake "my mistake" and keep thinking how to make up for it..
Sometimes the situations are of other kind people ask questions and we do not know how to answer them.. indeed we sit silently before them , but they misunderstand the silence and things go wrong again.. later on we try justifying ourselves and then we have lots of answers to the same question but the person is not ready to listen to any of it and in such situations i feel so helpless and finally end into tears..
Why do we always do not think a step before and then end thinking later on.. why do we always hurt others and feel sad and gloomy at the end..
I have realized this one thing that we need to think twice before we speak and keeping quite it not the option.. the answer should be well thought before and then it should be out of our mouth in a proper order and a proper tone... this is an option to avoid such situations before we actually make them complicated..
Just a thought of mind.. I know there will be many more options but this ones from my side.. :D
Every time it ends with a "kaash"... and then their is nothing i can do to improve it..
But genuinely all the time its in our hands.. they doesnt seem so but later on we realize if we had thought before taking a step or saying something we would have been in a different condition and facing different situations..
It always happens with me that i dont think before i say something and that something hurts my loved ones.. It takes some time for me to realize that and that time make a lot of difference..
People get mad at me and some times they even stop talking to me... and after all this i end up into tears and then while i cry i realize the mistake "my mistake" and keep thinking how to make up for it..
Sometimes the situations are of other kind people ask questions and we do not know how to answer them.. indeed we sit silently before them , but they misunderstand the silence and things go wrong again.. later on we try justifying ourselves and then we have lots of answers to the same question but the person is not ready to listen to any of it and in such situations i feel so helpless and finally end into tears..
Why do we always do not think a step before and then end thinking later on.. why do we always hurt others and feel sad and gloomy at the end..
I have realized this one thing that we need to think twice before we speak and keeping quite it not the option.. the answer should be well thought before and then it should be out of our mouth in a proper order and a proper tone... this is an option to avoid such situations before we actually make them complicated..
Just a thought of mind.. I know there will be many more options but this ones from my side.. :D
well said... understanding these things are part of growing, I am glad that you are learning things quickly ..
ReplyDeleteOne thing that i would like to add is .. u never have to end up in tear .... until unless if ur tears help you to console u in some way .. thought i feel u can find other ways to console your self.... learn and tick what ever you learnt should be the end of the day practice
Cheers ... life is all about learning :)